Father's Rights Associations

My oldest child from my first marriage is 22 so I am way past the need to belong to one of these organizations but if you are newly divorced or if you are a new unwed father this may be a good alternative for you. Many years ago I was a member of The Father's Rights Association of New York State. I was not active in the sense that I attended meetings and such but I felt like I belonged. These were people who understood the feelings I was having and the fears that I faced. It is hard for those who have not experienced the disenfranchisement to understand it. I remember how many people told me that the courts would be fair and that I should rely on them and view the system as a friend. I also know that I never felt that my opinions were being weighed in any of the judgements. The people in these organizations are sensitive to your concerns and can offer direction in how to deal with them. It is not only men because many of these fathers have new partners and they are directly affected just like the father.

I can't speak for these types of associations outside of New York but if you find yourself in a situation that I have described then maybe you should explore if there is an association of this type in your area and check it out. If anything it will reinforce the belief that your are not alone.

Be well guys!

TTYL.